Marriage Counseling & Couples Therapy
Help you better understand yourself and your partner Get Started NowFor the longest time, it seems like you and your partner have been caught in a destructive cycle.
Whether due to things beyond your control like infertility…
… an unexpected childhood diagnosis, or adding a new baby to the family, big stressors are continuing to divide you.
You both know that you can’t go on feeling this miserable, disconnected, and misunderstood. And you’re ready for guidance from the right professional.
You know your relationship is cold and distant.
You and your partner rarely do anything fun together anymore…
You’re constantly talking or arguing about the kids, or chores, or other responsibilities, but you tend to not to talk about your hopes, dreams, feelings, or needs.
It’s like you lost a partner in life and gained a roommate, or worse, an enemy. Sex and intimacy is not what it used to be. You are longing for more but you don’t know how to get there.
It’s painful to realize that the very place you long to feel understood and valued is the very place you struggle to find peace. You and your partner are drifting apart, and the emotional toll is overwhelming. Sometimes you wonder if one or both of you would be better if you didn’t stay in the relationship, but that isn’t really what you want.
You would love to be able to learn the skills and tools necessary to get you back on the right track.
You would love to reconnect and to find one another again.
You long to have meaningful discussions rather than conflict
You would love have hope that something positive will come out of this difficult period.
A lot of the time you feel hopeless and wonder if your relationship will succeed, and you wish you could better understand your partner and actually be understood in return. You both long for your needs to be met, but resentment has gotten in the way, and you feel the disconnect way too often.
You truly want to be a happy couple again and to go through life together.
You truly want to be a happy couple again and to go through life together.
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When You Attend Couples therapy for Your Relationship Problems With Simi Psychological Group
You will learn to reconnect intimately and sexually again
You will learn to resolve fights without tearing each other down
The Couples Counseling Process
Here’s what to expect in Couples Therapy in Simi Valley, Ca:
WEEK ONE: Intake
During this initial marriage counseling session, you, your partner, and your therapist will have the opportunity to work together to begin to understand what is really going on in your world. Your therapist will get to know the two of you by asking questions about your unique relationship concerns. And, together the three of you will start to develop a plan for your time that will help you to establish and reach your goals.
WEEK TWO and Beyond: Couples Counseling & sex therapy
Each Simi Valley couples therapy session is designed to help you dive deep into the underlying causes of disconnection. Together, the two of you and your therapist will identify how each of you as individuals contributes to your relationship as a whole. The goal is for both of you to feel comfortable and confident in who you are, which makes you more willing to be vulnerable and share yourselves with each other. This leads to an even deeper connection, better sex life, and stronger relationship.
WEEK TWO and Beyond: Couples Counseling
Each marriage counseling session is designed to help you dive deep into the underlying causes of disconnection. Together, the two of you and your therapist will identify how each of you as individuals contributes to your relationship as a whole. The goal is for both of you to feel comfortable and confident in who you are, which makes you more willing to be vulnerable and share yourselves with each other. This leads to an even deeper connection and stronger relationship.
TERMINATION: 1-2 Final Sessions
In your final sessions of couples therapy, you, your partner, and your therapist will review your goals to ensure you are satisfied with your counseling experience and that the work you have done together has met your expectations. You will also outline a plan going forward so that you and your partner are able to retain what you have worked on together and implement all you have learned outside of session.
More About Simi Psychological Group
Our Simi Valley therapists have years of experience working with couples and are passionate about creating effective change with our clients. As therapists, our job is to walk alongside you and your partner, encouraging you to use appropriate relationship skills and helping you both break free from the struggles your partnership is currently facing.
Our team of sex therapists in Simi Valley, CA specializes in working with individuals and couples to improve their sexual experiences. We approach sex therapy holistically, addressing physical, psychological, emotional, and relational aspects. When you learn to become vulnerable, traumas can be uncovered and things may come up that can halt the process of being open sexually. Your therapist will support you move and talk through it. We don’t want to stop you from exploring and encourage you to explore what feels good. If you allow sex to coexist with the rest of your life, rather than removing sex or allowing it to affect your sex life, it can be worked through and let it commingle with every part of your life. The result is a more fulfilling and satisfying connection with yourself and a partner.
Who Benefits Most from Marriage Counseling and Couples Therapy in Simi Valley
Couples Therapy in Simi Valley, Ca is best for those who want to overcome the distance in their relationships and replace it with positive connection.
All couples go through rough times, but sometimes it’s beneficial to have an independent and skilled third party to help you make sense of what is going on and to help you to gain the tools to make positive change in your relationship.
You will benefit from Couples Therapy if:
There are certain situations where you might not be ready for couples therapy sessions with Simi Psychological Group.
What Does Couples Therapy Cost?
Due to our desire to make sure you maintain maximum privacy and wanting to provide you with the highest level of care possible without constraints from managed care, we are out-of-network providers. This means we do not accept reimbursement directly from insurance.
When and Where Can I Schedule a Marriage Counseling Session in Simi Valley?
Our office is conveniently located at:
3695 Alamo St. Suite 103
Simi Valley, CA 93063.
We also serve Moorpark, Thousand Oaks, Agoura Hills, Northridge, Porter Ranch, and the surrounding communities.
In addition, we offer online therapy in Los Angeles, Ventura County and throughout California.
Business hours and availability are dependent on the provider.
Interested in Online Marriage Therapy?
Online marriage counseling and online couples therapy offers a strong convenience for many couples. Does the commute make it hard for you to coordinate schedules with your partner? Our telehealth video platform allows you to be separated on different devices – meaning, you can attend therapy from two different areas. Going online provides you peace of mind. It’s convenient, comfortable, and practical. You don’t need to worry about rushing over after work, or skipping dinner for a session. You can attend our online therapy from the comfort of your room. Our therapists at Simi Psychological Group want to help you better understand yourself and your partner.
Your Next Steps
The two of you will gain clarity, and a sense of solidarity connection if you both strive to open yourselves up to each other.
And you’ll also enjoy being friends once again rather than acting as enemies or roommates. Ultimately, you’ll you will grow closer and develop strong skills to use for your entire journey. We can help.
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